Husband & Wives relationships.....

I had to continue from this past week on Husband & Wives relationships.....There's still a lot to cover

Just like women, men are spoiled too! This is a fun topic for me, due to I have a big baby. When they sick they act just as bad as us women. Women men want to vent too, they desire you to treat them equally to you. What makes you think they always want to decide where you want to go? Learn to use your brains sometime and take him out on the town. Movies, walk in the park. Ladies you will score many brownie points with him.

One thing you never want to say rather they're where you're at in the Word or not, "God said" Did GOD tells you not to spend time alone with your spouse? You'll never get any snookie.

They hold a lot of stuff in; they don't let things bother them like we do. You as the woman learn to give the man your love the way they want. STOP always making it a religious thing. What does making love got to do with your always wanting it your way. Learn to adapt to new things, maybe it'll add some spice in your relationship.

To many of you married women get to religious with your man when HE wants to take it slow with you. And then you get mad when they do a wham bam thank you ma'am. You should never be too spiritual when it comes to making love to your spouse. Sex and Love making IS NOT THE SAME!!!

• Are you intimate with your mate?
• Do you still know him?
• Can you tell when something is wrong?
• Most of all do you know his love language.
• I say to you, if you don't you better learn it quick.

You better learn from Solomon in how he treated his lover. You can learn a lot from him.

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Lens Intro Title Lens Description Just like women, men are spoiled too! This is a fun topic for me, due to I have a big baby. When they sick they act just as bad as us women. Women men want to vent too, they desire you to treat them equally to you. What makes you think they always want to decide where you want to go? Learn to use your brains sometime and take him out on the town. Movies, walk in the park. Ladies you will score many brownie points with him. One thing you never want to say rather they’re where you’re at in the Word or not, “God said” Did GOD tells you not to spend time alone with your spouse? You’ll never get any snookie. They hold a lot of stuff in; they don't let things bother them like we do. You as the woman learn to give the man your love the way they want. STOP always making it a religious thing. What does making love got to do with your always wanting it your way. Learn to adapt to new things, maybe it'll add some spice in your relationship. To many of you married women get to religious with your man when HE wants to take it slow with you. And then you get mad when they do a wham bam thank you ma'am. You should never be too spiritual when it comes to making love to your spouse. Sex and Love making IS NOT THE SAME!!! Are you intimate with your mate? Do you still know him? Can you tell when something is wrong? Most of all do you know his love language. I say to you, if you don’t you better learn it quick. You better learn from Solomon in how he treated his lover. You can learn a lot from him.

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• Still Dating?
• The 5 Love Languages...Do you know his?
• Men Cologne
• It Matters
• Treat Them Like A King
• His Man Cave
• Men's Pajamas
• Relationship Poll
• Amazon Love Books
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• Jewelry
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Maintaining a healthy marriage takes intentional investment
You must always regard you relationship as top priority
Know that you have each others back
NO 50/50...but 100/100
Enjoy each other
And know the kids will be out the house soon.

It matters how your mate feels when its time for you both to chill and just relax.

Idol Worship

Idol Worship

When one address the issue and discussion concerning idol worship you come to the automatic conclusion it had to deal with graven images. No. Idolatry is anything that you set up on the highest standard before God. Anything that takes your focus off of the intended purpose in your relationship with God the Father.

In your everyday life you deal with thought and emotions of all sorts. When your time is so consumed with this particular thing, which it’s not relevant to the purpose of the destiny God has for you, its idol. Spending idol time doing something that not even necessary is the same thing. We must learn as individuals to take the focus off of self which is idol worship if it’s all about you too. There are several things you can see idol worship:

· Social networking, spending more time on there than time doing something productive that God has given you to do.

· Television- choosing to put a show or sitcom before God, when you know you haven’t given him his quality time

· Video Games- learning and teaching your children to give God His time.

· Songs – these that aren’t lining up with what the Word of God says and having all types of garbage going inside of you that’s not lining up with Him.

· Friends- Spending all your time with them, gossiping not really talking that can edify someone. It can turn into idol time.

· This is one a lot of people don’t think can become idol. **Your JOB** some of you can put your job before God and think it’s Him, you say if a man don’t work he don’t eat, yes that’s biblical but don’t take it out of its original context. Your job can keep you from spending time with God. Ask God to balance these things for you. God want His children to enjoy life and have it to the fullest but He wants His time. He gave you the ability to obtain these, so give Him what’s rightfully His.

I and my husband tell our children they’re twenty four hours in a day. As you tithes in church tithe God at least ten percent of the hours to Him, which is 2 hours and 40 minutes a day? It doesn’t have to be all at once, if you can find time to sit on a phone, watch television use that time to spend with the Creator who allowed you to enjoy.

© Kelly M. Turner